This is all about how to feel more feminine and more womanly.
These are just a few simple ways to bring in a fresh air of femininity into your life. This is a small collection of things I did to take pleasure in and reach that feeling.
Everyone has their own definition of femininity and what it means to them. This article includes the gentle, nurting side of femininity as well as the sexier side of being a woman.
Not to say this is just a feminine trait but it is part of a feminine energy in which men & woman both have a little of. Experts say masculine and feminine energies both reside in males and females. Two components within us. Some exhibit more of the other energy.
Truly FEEL that femininity. I must preclude with this statement. Do not be confused that femininity is too gentle, feeble or weak as some may say.
Femininity has a gentleness to it but we still remain with a strong mind. In no way am I telling you that this is a MUST when learning how to feel more feminine. This is simply for you to find some delight in
this article and hopefully find some usefulness.
How To Feel More Feminine
Dazzle Your Darling Self
Dazzle & Adorn yourself with jewelry that you simply love, that makes you feel pretty, or jewelry that compliments your personality. I speak about the effect of jewelry in several writings of mine.
I mention that “Jewelry and interesting or pretty accessories can dazzle. They can act as a distraction. And they can tell a story” How To Look & Be Better Than Average: An Up-Leveling Guide.
I do recommend in investing in real jewelry. Gold plated jewelry doesn’t have the look of real jewelry and tarnishes quite fast. Vermeil is a better option but needs a level of care to prevent tarnishing.
I started a small collection of real jewelry that I simply look through at times. It truly gives me such a feminine feeling knowing I have this small collection of lovely items that i carefully selected over time.
Pearls are specifically super feminine and dainty jewelry gives a delicate, feminine look.
“Jewelry and interesting or pretty accessories can dazzle. They can act as a distraction. And they can tell a story.”
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Bring Beauty Into Everyday Things. And Use Them
Drinking your tea out of a pretty tea set. Use your fine china for a romantic dinner, even if its with yourself. (Do be careful in keeping your things well kept). Set the table as if you’re in a glamorous restaurant. Have a gorgeous mug that you can use daily instead of one you don’t care for. Take pleasure in these little things.
Find a pen that writes beautifully and fits your hand perfectly. Have a personalized notepad.
There is an importance to decor. Decor can be inexpensive, yet can provide a woman with such a feminine feeling that it can be transformational after a long day.
It is important to have space (No matter how big or small) that is simply a place that is completely you. A cozy corner. A section of a closet. No matter how small your living space is and even if it’s shared, have a space, a spot, that you feel authentic in.
Remain Ever-Learning & Inquisitive
I mentioned this tip in Look & Be More Delicate: Body Language, Looks & Behaviors. Women are naturally inquisitive and curious, a feminine and delicate trait, yet strong as well. Knowledge holds great power. Opportunity follows knowledge as does a strong sense of self.
Build a book collection of topics that interest you. Refer to your book collection to always stay fresh with the knowledge you care for.
Build your skills in a hobby. Learn a specific craft. Master it. Or simply have the enjoyment of doing it.
Growing up, I was always told that even if there was trouble in the work field, as long as you have a skill you know well, you can still flourish. Skilled and knowledgable individuals have the ability to create things and sell them. They can also be teachers for their particular skill and make a living from it.
I had two piano teachers growing up that made quite a comfortable amount of money in addition to their regular job. They had a passion for their hobby, mastered it, and shared their knowledge.
Have Something To Nurture
Plants, A Garden, or even A Business.
These things require care and attention. When you give care, time and detail to something, it begins to flourish. Whether it be having plants in the home, a vegetable garden outside, a business you decided to create from the ground up or anything to nurture, it brings out a caring feminine energy within.
Have that little something to nurture. Nurture it, tend to end to it, and watch it grow with the love you put into it.
Femininity has a nurturing way about itself. This nurturing we give, softens us, and provides us with a womanly nature. It is a warmth about us that we have when doing these things and others can feel it.
Bring Out Your Inner Homemaker: Baking & Cooking
Learning how to cook was somewhere in the beginning of my Up-leveling journey and my Becoming more feminine journey. I surprised myself quite a bit when I was able to create a truly delicious and beautiful home cooked meal. It has a lot of meaning to me now and I continue to grow in my array of dishes I can create now. And I always snap a photo of my work as I take a lot of pride in it.
Being able to bring people together through a made-with-love meal is a beautiful way to let your inner woman radiate. In addition to this, being a warm and inviting hostess that creates a pleasant atmosphere truly is the cherry on top.
Baking something delicious produces such a cozy aroma. This is a another way to feel more feminine.
Of course both men and women cook. There is however such a womanly feeling you can get by creating a warm beautiful dish for people you love. This goes hand in hand with creating something.
Create Something
Expose Your Crafty side. Artistic Side. Journalistic side. Inner business woman. Have that desire and have that passion. Give some detail and time to something that makes you glow within.
There’s an incredible feeling of femininity when you turn inspiration and imagination into something tangible.
Creativity is such a beautiful and fascinating trait. You radiate when you speak of something you are passionate about and something that was created from your own mind, craft, or skill.
The ability to just let creativity flow from within you is a vibrant, feminine feature. The more of it you let shine from within you, the more feminine you begin to feel.
Creating is essential when learning how to feel more feminine.
Know That Flowers & Plants Bring A Certain Energy
Plants and flowers bring life into a home. You can regularly bring fresh flowers into a space and truly feel their lovely effect. Simply sitting next to them, it’s almost as if you absorb their beauty and feel it within you.
Keep in mind the effect color can produce. I’ve read many times that red flowers bring in passion, pink flowers bring in femininity, white flowers bring in peacefulness. Color does truly have an effect on us. Different species of plants and flowers have different meanings as well.
Research a bit on colors and types of flowers, their influence and meaning, and decide which ones you’d love to bring into your space. Or simply pick the prettiest bunch.
Have Little Touches Of Femininity In Your Everyday Life
It’s the smallest details that can invoke a feeling. A feeling of femininity. Something as simple as my light pink loofah makes my feel feminine. Perhaps its the effect of color we stated earlier.
This blazer pictured below, makes me feel empowered with its structure and just the status a blazer comes with. But the light pink color and tweed look gives me an ultra feminine, yet womanly feel.
Bows on heels are a delicate, feminine touch. At the same time, heels give some sex appeal. Or, if they are close-toed heels, they offer a professional look alongside the delicate feminine feeling.
A silky scarf in your hair, embroidery on a blouse or embroidery on bed sheets. There are so many little ways to incorporate these little touches of femininity. And remember, just a small little hint of femininity can have quite the effect.
How To Feel More Feminine With Use Of Color
As discussed above, selecting the color pink gave me a super ultra feminine feel. There is something so delicate and feminine about this color that can give an instantaneous transformation to the way we feel. One effect of this lovely color can be read in this interesting study where inmates showed less aggression after having their cell walls painted pink.
If we prefer not to wear pink, other feminine or neutral colors can always be used. Lavender, pastels, nudes, creams, sage.
Nurture Your Feminine Side By Nurturing Your Self
A day of skin care, a moment of relaxation, or a spa day at home. Journaling if you feel it helps, can give you a feeling of freedom and refreshment.
Nurturing yourself with plentiful healthy foods is a key in this as well. The body and mind feed off what we present to it. Plenty of fruits and vegetables are quite essential as we know, therefore its very important to provide our lovely bodies with the nourishment they need.
In my piece, “Make Your Face Look More Feminine: For A Non-Typical Beauty”, I discuss how vegetables can make you look prettier, more vibrant and well. You can find it in the section “How To Look More Feminine & Younger Without Makeup.
Take time to yourself, and as I had mentioned before, have a space of your own. Even having a small cozy corner with your favorite things in a bedroom is enough. A cozy place to read a book is a simple way to nurture yourself.
Improve Your Handwriting: Add in Some Femininity
In 7 Lovely Tips: How To Have More Feminine Handwriting, I go into detail about creating a more feminine penmanship. Not only will you feel more feminine, but you will create better handwriting.
These practices will also assist in creating a better version of one self. Up-leveling is always a YES, so long as you love yourself first in your beginning moment.
Create A Hint Sex Appeal: Getting A Touch Risqué
High Heels. Perfume. Lipstick.
These things many of us have cherished as little girls and just couldn’t wait to play with as adults!
Having a good walk in heels is so womanly. Depending on the walk, you can look dainty, confident, or seductive. The choice is yours. Either way, heels make legs look very pretty and feet look smaller.
Practice your walk, even if you’re not in heels. Have the idea in your mind of how you want to be perceived. Dainty, confident, seductive, whatever you desire. Walk toward a mirror. Watch yourself, evaluate your walk and create it into one you’d like.
Perfume can create such a presence without a word even said. Find one that is all you and makes you feel completely in control and confident. What a mood it can set for you each day. Know the power of scent.
Seduction: Further Amplify the Sexier Side of Being A Woman
Lingerie. Stockings & Garter Belts.
These were everyday items years and years ago, under a woman’s dress that no one saw but her and possibly her husband when he came home.
Create a selection of pretty bras with matching panties. Have at least one very sexy outfit you can put on even if its just for you to wear in the mirror. Love that woman looking back at you in the mirror and get familiar with how pretty she looks in her new lingerie.
A Boudoir Photoshoot just to have for yourself and a special someone. Or…Keep it simple with a sexy selfie you don’t have to share. Know your angles, take a good photo and look at it from time to time. Keep it as a reminder.
Being a woman is a beautiful blessing. Truly feeling like one, takes it to another level.
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