How To Look Flirty & How To Be More Physically Attractive.
Could it be just as simple as the old fashioned cartoons, “Bat your lashes and give a pretty smile?” Most certainly, but I want to provide you with several little tips that will amplify your attractiveness and really make you learn how to look more flirty.
Let’s actually depict old cartoons that seemed to perfectly exaggerate the flirtatiousness and flirtatious look a female can possess. Emphasized female features seemed to dominate the flirty characters with the following;
- Emphasized Dark Lush Lashes
- Pouty Lips
- Curvy Physique
These features along with other mannerisms such as a sultry voice, or higher pitched feminine voice created an ultimate magnetic, flirty, sexy woman.
We need not copy these looks, more so use them as inspiration. We can be very selective in what tips we incorporate in our own flirty looks as this will be a little guide for you to pick and pull your favorite tips from, or simply just read for delight.
Tip No.1 is more about self love.
More physical tips began at Tip No. 2.
Let’s learn how to look flirty.
1. Highlight That Little Different Something About You
I must start with this tip as it’s my favorite and is important for us to know. I’ll preface this with my quote I used quite often on TheMiniSkirtFiles.com.
It is important to have an image of the woman you want to become. It is equally imperative that you love yourself as you are in this moment prior to beginning your self improvement.
Love, The MiniSkirt Files
Imperfection can be super super sexy. Please read that again! Imperfections, or features which we deem imperfect, can be SUPER, SUPER SEXY. And they indeed CAN make you look more physically attractive.
I personally have fallen for men with a crooked tooth, lips thinner than paper and other “quirks” that are primarily labeled as “imperfections.” I too have several imperfections that men have loved in me.
Don’t be shy in highlighting your features that set you apart and differentiate you from another woman. In my piece, How To Look Hot In 5 Minutes: An Easy To Follow, Sexy Guide, I mention this one, amongst other tips that bring you a physical “glow up” as well.
Tips On Amplifying Your Imperfections To Feel More Confident:
- Crooked Tooth? Smile More, Whiten Teeth To Make It Even Prettier.
- Not So Thick Brows? Look Up Jean Harlow. Create A Beautiful Look Similar To This Gorgeous Old Hollywood Actress.
- Freckles? Embrace Them! Don’t Cover Them Up. Younger Gals Have Been Drawing Them On Their Face With Brow Pencils! They Even Use Photo Filters To Have Freckles In Their Photos.
- “Lazy Eye?” I Knew A Gal Who Had This “Imperfection” And Somehow Looked Partly Seductive, Partly As If She Was Giving You A Sexy Wink, And Partly Cute. A Dazzling Smile Can Truly Amplify And Pair Perfectly Well With This One.
- Small Lips? Read My Article Are Small Lips Attractive: Enhance & Embrace A Lovely Pout. Find Out Why Men Actually Love Them.
2. Wear An Off The Shoulder Top
There is something so sexy, so flirty, so seductive yet so innocent about an off the shoulder top.
You’re neither trying to hard, nor trying too little. It comes off as just the right amount of skin shown, provided you are not showing too much leg.
Particularly in the winter time when we are bundled up from head to toe, an off the shoulder sweater can add to that flirty effect we are going for.
Do remember, we want to remain classy and elegant whilst learning how to look flirty and this top is quite a perfect addition to our flirty wardrobe as it provides just the right amount of sex appeal.
Showing just the right amount of skin will make you look more physically attractive.
3. Wear Something With A Sheen | A Silky Item
Silk itself is so flowing, so feminine and so elegant. What better way to highlight femininity than with something of a silky sheen? A man just may want to feel the silkiness of the fabric and get closer to the lady wearing this beautiful material.
The way the fabric bounces off the light, it almost creates an angelic look. It can also bring somewhat of a glow to you, making you look more flirty and more physically attractive.
4. Create Tousled Hair | The Sexy Bedhead Effect
There’s an effortless, sexiness to tousled hair – bedhead hair. Well, clean and somewhat styled bedhead hair. We don’t want to look unkempt.
For inspiration you can look at some French women, whether they are French models, or French women’s street style, you’ll often find this sort of tousled, hand brushed look.
The sexiness most likely lies in that it gives the look of rolling around in bed, perhaps during a passionate kiss. It just simply has that flirty effect.
A sexy, simple tip to incorporate when learning how to look flirty.
5. Part 1: Select A Top Or Dress With Ruffles
There is something so flirty about ruffles. Now since we are grown women, the ruffles I am referring to are not the super ruffled skirts we wore as little girls.
Though ruffles can be youthful, they can done in a classy, grown woman way. They can add even more femininity to an already elegant outfit.
Ruffles can add femininity to a casual top that is not even in a highly perceived feminine color such as pink. I have a strapless top in a deeper green color yet it still exhibits a flirty look with .
Do be cognizant the ruffles can enhance the body part they are placed on. For example, if you have small breasts, it’s a wonderful way to add a little oomph.
5. Part 2: Select A Top Or Dress With Draping
Draping on tops or dresses adds femininity and actually can add some curves to the body when placed near our more feminine parts.
This is a spicy tip I use in my article where I teach you how to look curvy. Save this article for later if you want to look flirtier with curves 😉
6. Add Flirty Colors | Sexy Colors To An Outfit
Do remember as we specified earlier in the article, even if you don’t select a garment in a feminine color, you can still add a dash of flirty with details like ruffles and draping or simply having an off shoulder top.
Flirty feminine colors are usually pinks, mauves, pastel colors, light yellow, sage, light purples.
What sort of feminine flirty look are you going for? A darling or a vixen?
- Wear pinks and pastels for a girlish yet woman like femininity.
- Wear red for a sexy feminine seductress look.
If choosing a color in pink or anything considered “girlish” fear not coming across as too young. Read this article later as it helps you dress more womanly, yet still retain an air of femininity.
7. Put On Heels | Kitten Heels
Even if you have larger feet, heels create the look of smaller feet. No need to walk around town in 4 inch heels. Kitten heels, heels of 1-3 inches, add just the right of femininity to an outfit.
I remember walking to the store with a fitted t-shirt on, leggings, a nice bag and little kitten heels on.
- The feminine sound of my little heels walking by, made just about every man turn his head.
- Even in a simple outfit, there were verbal exchanges of flirting (tasteful flirting, nothing vulgar.)
Just one little addition can create that sexy, flirty look and make you more physically attractive. You have so many options! Keep reading for even more of these tips!
8. Amplify Sex Appeal With Something RED
Studies conclude the effects that are possible when wearing the color red. We do not want to overdo adding red as it can be too seductive.
We’re going for flirty in this article. A dash of red is all you need for that INSTANT flirty look.
Here are simple ways to add the sexiness of red while remaining demure and flirty.
- Red Nails
- Red Kitten Heels
- Red Purse
- Red Earrings
- Red Lips or a Red Dress would still fall into the category of flirty, but more so along the lines of the sexy, seductive type of flirty.
9. A Shimmery Highlighter For A Little Flirty Sparkle
Our collarbones, especially when we show them off along with our shoulders, are very feminine to males. We can highlight our most feminine features with a little shimmer.
Personally, sparkles are a bit too much for me, I would opt for a delicate shimmering highlighter.
- You can brush some shimmery highlighter along your collarbone or on your shoulders with a makeup brush.
- A little on the tops of your cheekbones will give a dewy fresh and flirty look.
- A little shimmer on the inner corners of the eyes never fails in aiding a flirty eye makeup look.
10. Blush To Look A Little Flush
Blush, when blended seamlessly, can give you a flirty face in seconds. Blush signifies blood flow the face which can say the following;
- That you are youthful & glowing
- That you are healthy looking
- It also can subconsciously give that idea of rolling around in bed during a moment of passion (similar as described how the bedhead hair can create this effect.)
A super flirty tip is to use two different colored blushes. You need to play around in the mirror for the perfect placement of blush as I have personally never looked good in the “Typical Makeup Advice.”
One thing I do love with blush is that it truly can soften your not-so-soft-and-delicate features. I like a little on my chin to make it seem softer. Across the forehead is also a great softening technique. Read My TOP SECRETS To Make Your Face Look More Feminine: For A Non-Typical Beauty for more tips on making your face look more feminine.
11. Create A Kissable Pout
Soft Kissable lips, regardless of their size, are flirty. You can enhance your lips with a little liner, gloss, lipstick, or just a shimmery highlighter above your cupid’s bow.
Choose a flirty color for your lips like a soft pink. A nude to soften your features yet still look feminine and flirty, or a high gloss clear coat on your lips. Do be aware that gloss can be very pretty but may be sticky and not as kissable.
12. Create The Look Of Long, Lush & Plush Lashes
I personally do NOT like a set of false lashes sitting on my eyes. I prefer a good mascara that blackens my lashes and thickens them.
A good mascara can create doll-like eyes, doe eyes, cartoon eyes, FLIRTY eyes! Femininity is highlighted when we contrast our features, particularly when make them differ more so from men’s features.
You can opt for a mascara that’s in a color even darker than black, such as blackest black, carbon black, etc.
Curl your lashes, apply a good mascara, and channel that flirty old-fashioned cartoon ;).
This piece was created to help you look more flirty and learn how to look more physically attractive.
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